Sex is one of the foundations on which a relationship is built. As a rule, if partners could find mutual understanding in their sexual life, then such a relationship is not in danger of breaking. However, if there are unresolved issues regarding intimacy, quarrels cannot be avoided. Unfortunately, the most common cause of scandals is a question that worries many women. Why don't men do kuni and does it mean a lack of love.
Contents
- Men's opinion
- It's not a man's business
- Disgusting
- Fear
- Lack of mutual feelings
- How to get kuni from a man
Men's opinion
Most women lament that they do not feel the return from their partner. Most often it concerns oral sex. Almost every woman considers blowjob an integral part of sexual intercourse. Men, in turn, are in no hurry to orally please their partner. As a result, the relationship between lovers deteriorates, which leads to parting.
Unfortunately, this happens so often that, willy-nilly, you will start looking for an answer to the question: why do men not do kuni. To understand the real reason, sociologists conducted a survey that gave interesting results: only 4 reasons stop men from giving pleasure to a partner.
It's not a man's business
Most men believe that satisfying a woman orally – not a man's business. According to them, cunnilingus humiliates their dignity, since the place of a man is clearly not at the feet of a woman. However, they also do not recognize sex without a blowjob and are wildly offended by girls if they are refused.
Psychologists say that the reason for this behavior could be the humiliation that the guy had to endure in childhood. Having received a psychological trauma, a man subconsciously does not want to obey a woman. In such a case, only psychologists will help to correct the situation, who will help overcome children's grievances.
Disgusting
There are men who do not agree to please a woman because they are disgusted. Here a completely logical question arises: what did such a man forget in bed with a woman? Most often, such statements are thrown by teenagers who have just entered the world of intimacy and have no idea how to please a lady.
In their opinion, the girl is already obliged to squeal with delight only when she sees his penis, and she must also make every effort so that “His Majesty” experiences bliss. Fortunately, there are not too many such men, and most often with age they reconsider their views on life. Otherwise, no one will want to deal with such egoists.
Fear
Some men refuse oral sex to their girlfriend just because they are afraid of shame. They feel like they can't do it well. They try to adhere to the position: “the one who does nothing is not mistaken.” In part, this may be the fault of the fair sex themselves. Without appreciating the partner's efforts, it was the girl who could instill this self-doubt in him.
Lack of mutual feelings
There is an opinion that a man will never do a cunnilingus to a girl if he is into her not deeply in love.
And indeed it is. Only being under the influence of bright and strong feelings, he will be ready not only to move mountains for the sake of his beloved, but also to sink to her feet to give unearthly pleasure.
How to get kuni from a man
Every woman wants to feel exactly that one in the life of a man. Sexologists say that if you follow a few rules, then almost any woman can turn out to be “that one”.
- Don't pressure the man.
Naturally, you need to voice your desires. However, this should not outgrow the requirement to follow orders unquestioningly. Not a single representative of the strong half of humanity will endure pressure. Especially when it comes to intimate life. If a woman is too persistent in her desire, it will not lead to anything good. Most likely, the man will simply end this relationship and go in search of a new companion.
- Don't scoff
It happens that a man's first attempts to deliver oral pleasure to his beloved fail miserably. However, a wise woman will never show that her partner was inept. On the contrary, it should be praised. This will allow the man to have no doubts about his abilities and continue to study kuni techniques.
- Do not compare
Perhaps this rule applies not only to sex, but it is still worth emphasizing that comparisons in intimate life are not allowed. No self-respecting man will tolerate the “competition” that his chosen one will hold. And even more so in oral sex.
Each couple builds relationships based on their desires and preferences. Some lovers do not practice oral sex in principle, as it does not give pleasure to both of them. And they are happy, because everything happens by mutual consent. This is the main condition for a happy relationship – to find your person who will fully share all the desires.
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