How do you know if a girl has had anal sex? No way. This article could be completed, since there are no physiological differences between an anal virgin and not so much. An experienced gynecologist cannot always give a conclusion with one hundred percent certainty that the girl had at least vaginal sex, not to mention anal penetration.
Anyone who claims otherwise lives in a pink world where all girls — all princesses who do not poop, eat pollen and ride rainbow unicorns.
Contents
- Physiological features
- How to ask a girl about anal sex
- Special bonuses of anal sex
- How not to turn your first anal sex into your last one
Physiological features
Let's think logically: in the process of defecation, quite a lot of waste can come out of the anus. So what makes you think that the process of entering this very anus is different from the process of exiting it? Fortunately, the body, both male and female, is a very thoughtful system and the sphincter is equipped with muscle tissue. Since this part of the body is not amenable to conscious control, its contraction and relaxation occurs involuntarily. Usually the sphincter is contracted, and relaxation occurs as a result of irritation of the rectum. At its core, the anal sphincter is a kind of valve that does not allow waste products to “appear into the world” freely and unexpectedly. So, if anal sex in any way influenced the condition of the muscles, the act of defecation would happen involuntarily and suddenly.
This suggests the conclusion: in order to find out if the girl had anal sex, it is best to ask her about it directly. The main thing is to accept in advance the fact that you will not be able to check in any way, so in any case you have to take her word for it.
How to ask a girl about anal sex
Of course, it is not always possible to ask this question directly: someone is embarrassed, someone does not want to know the answer to this delicate question. There is no easy way to find out: it is unlikely that a girl will directly tell you this. No, of course, if at the most crucial moment she took out an anal plug and stands in the middle of the room with an intriguing smirk, then questions are not needed — you can get down to business right away. In all other cases, you need to develop a more accurate approach to business. Especially if you want the first time not to be the only one.
If you are lucky enough to be in bed with a girl, then the only one hundred percent indicator that the girl has known all the delights of anal sex is a clear instruction from her what exactly you need to do at this particular moment. If no instructions were received, and the girl is visibly nervous, then either this is her first time, or previous times have brought nothing but pain and embarrassment.
Special bonuses of anal sex
The fact is that, due to the peculiarities of the functioning of the muscular frame of the sphincter, it will not be possible to force yourself to relax by an effort of will. The only option is the involvement of both participants in the process. You'll have to sweat to force the mechanism that blocks the exit of waste products to the outside, let the foreign body inside. But the result is worth the effort on both sides, and there are a number of reasons for this:
- The anus area is erogenous for both sexes.
- The Grafenberg zone (the unknown and unattainable G-spot) is perfectly stimulated during anal sex.
- Men can get more pleasure from tighter compression of the penis with sphincter muscles.
- Expanding the boundaries of sexual permissiveness further stimulates psychological pleasure and satisfaction from sex.
How not to turn your first anal sex into your last one
The most common mistake in anal sex is to move too quickly to penetration. The sphincter muscles are very strong and too sudden penetration without prior preparation can lead to painful sensations for both partners. In order to prevent discomfort and injury to the delicate mucosa, a number of simple rules must be observed:
- Lubrication should flow like a river. From an excess of lubrication, no one has ever been bad.
- Saliva — it's not a lubricant, no matter what the porn movies say!
- You should not try to enter immediately and go to anal sex without first warming up.
- Movements should be very slow and smooth. At least in the beginning.
- Use a restrictive ring if you are lucky enough to have a penis that is too long.
- It is advisable to switch to anal sex after reaching orgasm in other ways. Orgasm relaxes the muscles.
- No means no. This word does not carry any other meanings and hidden messages.
Complete comfort, relaxation and a sense of security – a guarantee that the first time will go well. Even if you fail to achieve fireworks, orgasms, and raptures, a quality first time will provide an opportunity to repeat, retrospective, and the next time it will be much better. As with any sex, it will only get better with practice. And you will no longer have to wonder if the girl had anal sex – you will know the answer for sure.
SIGNS THAT A GIRL LOVES ANAL SEX!
