VKontakte is one of the most popular sites in Runet. It is not surprising that many Russian-speaking netizens prefer to seek their destiny in its vastness. Why go far if thousands of beautiful girls are registered here?
The brainchild of Pavel Durov has never tried to take bread from the titans of the dating industry. VK is not a dating site, but a social network. Here you communicate with relatives, and with friends, and with work colleagues.
But it was here, by a happy coincidence, that many lucky people found their destiny. How did they do it?
Contents
Part One: Profile
You will not conquer the woman of your dreams if you write to her from a page that does not inspire confidence. You have no right to make a mistake – if your profile does not impress her, she will not accept your friend request or even block you.
Let's start parsing your page point by point:
- First and last name
Go in search of your destiny from your real page. Enter your first and last name. It would be nice to also indicate your real age. The truth will come out one way or another. So don't add or take away years of your life, okay?
If a girl decides that a fake is being added to her, she will not stand on ceremony – she will block the deal with the end.
- Photos
A must have. Do not put as the main page a photo in the company of five friends. Girls, of course, love to play Sherlock Holmes and do social media investigations. But you haven't even managed to interest her yet, and she already needs to go through thirty-three photos to find out exactly which of these guys from a photo card of dubious quality is added to her as a friend.
Intricate conceptual photographs in which the face is not visible – in the furnace. One hundred identical selfies, from which one smells of narcissism, go there.
Upload a couple of high-quality photos in which you are alone. Plus a couple of shots with friends or cats – that's enough.
Do you play sports, travel a lot or have an interesting job? Feel free to post photos and come up with a capacious but juicy caption for each of them.
Remove photos of questionable content. Or put them in a closed album. Parties are great. But if every second photo shows you with a glass of alcohol, you are unlikely to make a positive impression on the lady.
- Music and video recordings
Hide the list of your audio recordings or shamelessly put it on public display? Decide youself. If you want to find a girl with similar musical preferences, open free access to your playlist. You can also share your favorite band's new album on your wall.
Clean up your videos. The pointless “twist” videos you uploaded back in tenth grade? Damn it, the girl is ready to put up with it. But if you have a whole porn collection in the video section …
Well, you won't surprise a girl with this.
But you won't impress for sure.
Better keep a couple of cat videos and good quality movies in your videos.
- Posts
Please remove the following things:
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You can leave a selection of English words that you supposedly plan to learn. We won't tell anyone that you forgot about them the second you shared them on your wall.
Fill your page with the following:
- Playlists with cool music;
- Educational podcasts;
- Quality photos;
- Movies;
- Interesting articles.
So, your page looks more or less decent. Do not forget to delve into the privacy settings and open access for all users – otherwise the girl will not be able to appreciate your efforts until she accepts your friend request. But whether she wants to mess with a pig in a poke is a big question.
Part two: how to find a girl on VK
“My page is on fire, but where to look for a girl?”
Calm down, we'll tell you now.
- Affinity groups
The community of your favorite show, your favorite band, or the gym you go to. You can write to any girl you like in the comments. Say, they say, I liked your witty comment in the “…” group.
You can go the other way – go to the search for group members. You drive in the country, city and age you need. And look through the profiles of girls. If some beautiful stranger arouses your interest, send a friend request or write a message (if possible).
Dating girls online is always a game of luck. The probability here is 50/50 – either success or a crushing fiasco awaits you.
Therefore, do not be lazy to work hard on the design of your profile and increase your chances of winning a girl's heart.
- Dating groups in your city
Various kinds of “Looking for you…”, “Dating in…”, etc. Don't be fooled by the impressive number of subscribers – most of these communities will do little to help you in finding your soulmate. Look through a couple of the largest groups in your city. Scroll through the posts on the wall. If any girl's announcement sparks your interest, please like or leave a comment. Do not be upset if the beauty does not write you a message – there are a lot of fakes in such communities.
- Dating apps
There are plenty of them on VK. “Bottles”, “TopFace” and a new creation of “Vkontakte” called Lovina. Most apps have official communities where you can find all the information you need.
Try, like, meet – the more attempts, the higher the chances of success.
- Friends of friends
If you like a particular girl with whom you were introduced by mutual friends, find her on Vkontakte and write to her. Like a couple of posts, send a friend request and wait for her reaction.
If you don't know each other, don't forget to indicate in the request that you saw her at a birthday/wedding/party, etc. If she finds out that you have mutual acquaintances, the degree of trust will creep up.
- Search by photo
If you met a girl outside of Vkontakte and want to find her page, use Google image search.
You don't even need to download the photo to your computer – just copy the link.
- Minimum data
Liked a girl, but you only managed to find out her name? There are no mutual acquaintances and everything seems hopeless? Open the search, drive in the name, city and approximate age of your stranger.
You will have to spend at least a couple of hours on your investigation. We hope your enchantress is worth it.
Part Three: Communication
Common Mistakes You Should Avoid:
- Corny
“Hi, how are you?”, “Hi, what are you doing?”, “Hi, can I meet you?” – what answer do you hope to get to this quintessential banality?
“Hi, it's okay”, “Hi, nothing”, “Hi, you can't.”
First, tell me how you stumbled upon her page: “I saw you in the “…” group, you always leave cool comments”, “I saw you at Sasha’s birthday party”, “we go to the same gym”, etc.
Write what got you interested in her and why you decided to meet her. Tell her what you do, show your sense of humor a couple of times and give her a couple of compliments. If the acquaintance goes smoothly, offer to meet on neutral territory.
Conclusion
So, we derive the formula for meeting a girl on Vkontakte: an interesting profile + detective work + knowledge of the elementary rules of the Russian language + sense of humor + manners and ability to communicate + luck + willingness of the girl on the other side of the dialogue to get acquainted with some idiot = success.
How to meet a girl on VK?! There is an answer! ✦Not very good communication((
