Male attraction in other words can be called a man's desire for intimacy. There is also a female attraction, but male and female desire are different from each other. Today we will talk about male attraction (libido).
In men, libido is expressed more strongly, however, attraction is a deeply individual phenomenon. For some, it is not expressed so strongly, for some, the attraction is stronger, for some it even works around the clock. By the way, it should be noted that the attraction of a man can manifest itself not only to a woman.
What is the difference between male and female attraction
- attraction in men is expressed more strongly, and that's why – in the male body there is much more of the hormone testosterone (the hormone that is responsible for sexual desire). In women, it is also present, but it is much less. And therefore, male sexual activity is much higher than female;
- there is a very big difference in attraction at different ages. Young people experience the peak of sexual “hunting” at the age of 20, after 30 years they become calmer, the craving for intimacy gradually becomes very measured from frantic;
- women, on the contrary, after 30 years are just beginning to get a taste of sexual life. 20-year-old young ladies are more seduced by platonic feelings. Even if a young girl, instead of a romantic walk in the moonlight, went to bed with you, this does not mean at all that she is already experiencing a storm of passions. She is still young. This is not her time;
- for men, as a rule, sexual desire can become a reason for dating, for women, the opposite is true – only after falling in love with a man, she begins to feel a strong attraction to him;
- if a woman under nervous stress does not think about sex at all, then a man in nervous tension can be “cured” by sex. Men have a wonderful discharge during sexual intercourse, but a woman will not even be able to start a bed scene if she is stressed;
- as a rule, a woman has an attraction only to someone who is really dear to her, close to whom she feels love or passion. A man can “want” several women at the same time. So, dear girls, there is nothing to scold the male sex for infidelity, this is physiology!
- men have many diseases that prevent a man from fully enjoying sex. With prostatitis, adenoma and other diseases, a man will not be able to be attracted to a woman;
- age is another enemy of male sex drive. As we age, libido decreases or disappears altogether.
The difference is obvious. However, for sure, the beautiful half of humanity would like to know what are the signs of male attraction to a woman. This is not difficult to recognize.
Signs of male sexual attraction
Write, do not write these signs, women still accurately identify them. But … let's be consistent and describe how male attraction manifests itself:
- a man changes outwardly during attraction – his shoulders turn around, his stomach is removed, his head rises, his gaze becomes confident and proud, the whole pose seems to say “I'm the main male here, you don't even have to look at the rest!”. No wonder, such a posture and behavior have been passed on to the stronger sex since prehistoric times. And in nature, this can often be observed in males;
- a young man wants to look good outwardly – he constantly shakes off invisible dust particles, smooths his hair, straightens his shirt, pulls his collar;
- even against her will, she constantly looks at the object of her desire, a woman will repeatedly catch his gaze on herself. A man will be nervous, embarrassed, ashamed of this, but he will not be able to help himself;
- tries to be close, reduces the distance between the desired woman and himself. He may not immediately come and stay. It is likely that he will go back and forth, but he definitely needs to be near the one to whom he is attracted;
- The man is trying to get attention. It can be a loud voice, he can tell a joke, play the guitar, sing – he definitely needs to identify himself;
- copying the actions of a beloved woman. At the same time, the man himself does not even notice that he is repeating the gestures of his young lady. The woman straightened her hair and the man did the same, the woman put down her coffee cup and the man put his coffee away. Did you notice it? Be sure that your interlocutor is not indifferent to you.
- the voice of a young man at such moments becomes low, deaf, hoarse. And if such a voice is accompanied by a languid look, is it worth talking about something?
When attraction fades
It happens that in fairly young men, attraction to even the most beautiful girl appears very rarely or does not appear at all.
This can happen for a number of reasons:
- for some reason, the hormone testosterone decreases;
- health is disturbed;
- stressful situations very often arise between a man and a woman;
- bad habits – alcohol, smoking, drugs;
- treatment with honey. drugs that give side effects;
- psychological problems (fears, complexes).
All these factors can be solved, you just need to contact the experts. And if you are interested in how men differ from women, then we recommend that you read our next article further down the link.