If there is no man nearby or your partner is not very skilled in sex, this does not mean at all that you will only dream of an orgasm. You can even enjoy Your assistants will be fingers, sex toys and improvised means.
How to bring yourself to a vaginal orgasm?
The easiest way to get a vaginal orgasm is by stimulating the G-spot. about 2.5-6 cm from the entrance to the vaginal wall.
The pleasure point is more ribbed to the touch. It is easy to find in a state of arousal.
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- lie on your back and spread your legs wide;
- insert your fingers inside the vagina;
- feel the desired area with your fingertips.
It can be difficult to stimulate the G-spot with your fingers. Therefore, it is better to use a vibrator or a dildo.
Experimenting, you can understand what inclination, speed and intensity of movements of a sex toy give you maximum pleasure. And then continue to stimulate the desired area until “discharge”.
5 tips for getting yourself to a vaginal orgasm faster:
- in progress caressing the G-spot, try alternately tensing and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles, as if you are already enjoying the process right now;
- don't forget about enough extra lube – it should be very wet and comfortable;
- do not hold your breath, breathe deeply, filling your stomach with air and exhaling it slowly;
- additionally, you can caress the clitoris and /or nipples with both fingers and sex toys or any other means at hand, this will greatly enhance your pleasure;
- try to move the vibrator or finger at different paces – sometimes very actively and powerfully, sometimes slowly and gently, and watch how you feel.
It happens that the whole sexual mood of a girl is knocked down by her own hand movements with a dildo. If you want to create an imitation of the presence of a partner, you can use the suction cup accessory. And attach it to different surfaces. For example, to the bath bowl. In this case, both hands will remain free.
How to bring yourself to a clitoral orgasm?
The clitoris is the main secret of female pleasure. Stimulation of this small tubercle allows the girl to get powerful bright orgasms. Including independently without the participation of a partner.
Finding the clitoris is quite simple. Its head (which is usually stimulated) is located where the labia minora converge with each other. Visually, it looks like a small tubercle. Although different women may have different sizes.
The clitoris can be caressed in many ways. The easiest way to do this is with your index or middle finger. In an excited state, the “tubercle of pleasure” will increase in size and it will be even more convenient to stimulate it.
5 tips on how to bring yourself to a clitoral orgasm faster:
- Lubrication usually does not reach the clitoris, and with it his caresses are much more pleasant and allow you to reach the peak of pleasure faster. So use a lubricant. Or spread some natural lube over your clitoris;
- Try different positions. Put a pillow under your buttocks, squeeze your legs or, conversely, spread them wider. Choose for yourself exactly the position in which you are pleased, comfortable and manage to relax as much as possible;
- Do not stop when you feel the approach of orgasm. Continue the same movements with your hand and fingers. If you get tired quickly, then use a vibrator;
- If you get your first orgasm, give yourself a break for a couple of minutes and continue stimulation in the same way. Then you will have a chance to experience a few more waves of pleasure;
- You can experience an average of up to 7 orgasms at a time if you continue the stimulation correctly and give yourself at least a small break in between. It is necessary to repeat all the same actions as the first time, but more intensively. But the brightness of pleasure, on the contrary, will gradually decrease. From time to time.
If you can't get an orgasm with your hand and a vibrator, go to the bathroom. This is the easiest way to experience pleasure for girls who are just starting an intimate journey and still do not know their body well.
To get an orgasm in the bathroom, you need to sit comfortably in it and spread your legs. And then – set a comfortable temperature and direct the jet from the shower or tap to your clitoris. It should not be too powerful, otherwise the sensations may be unpleasant or even painful.
Keep caressing yourself with water until you feel a wave of pleasure wash over you. Immediately after that, you can turn off the tap and relax, unwind. It is important that you feel warm and comfortable.
How to bring yourself to a nipple orgasm?
Getting a nipple orgasm is much easier with a partner. After all, he also has lips and a tongue at his disposal, with which he can actively caress your breasts.
But you can try to have fun in this way on your own. To do this, stock up on warming massage oil and sit comfortably on the sofa or bed.
Next, you can simply start exploring and caressing your breasts with your hands. For example, stroke the area in question first. Then – start pinching, pulling, rubbing the nipples.
Experiment with different actions first. And then – continue to do what gives you special pleasure. Repeat these steps until you feel an orgasm approaching.
In addition to hands, you can use special vibrators to caress your breasts. And choose for yourself clamps with a comfortable pressing force. They will enhance the experience.
5 tips to get yourself to a nipple orgasm faster:
- Don't start fondling breasts until you are fully aroused.Nipples should become hard and very sensitive to touch at this stage;
- Instead of warming oil, you can also use any lubricant in the process.Or even your own saliva;
- If you feel that any actions with breasts and nipples are painful for you, stop sexual experiments. You may need to wait a few days for a more suitable period in your menstrual cycle;
- To increase the pleasure, along with caressing the nipples, you can stroke the clitoris. Or use a vibrator in this area;
- An excellent option would be to use a massager with attachments for the clitoris and G-spot at once, and caress the nipples at this moment with your hands.
Orgasm alone with by itself is usually less bright than that obtained with the help of a partner. But it can be a great workout and an important step in learning about your body. And it will help to learn more about your own pleasure, to enhance it in the future with sexual contact.
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