Money is an important factor in a relationship, though not the main one. On the basis of lack of money, family scandals often flare up, and the notorious weather in the house becomes too gloomy. Is it any wonder that girls are looking for men who know how to earn money and can provide for their families? No. But how to look for them?
Hunting season
Model and businesswoman Elina Kamiren claims that attracting a rich man is a completely feasible mission. Do you dream of a luxurious life and beautiful courtship? Then heed her advice.
Rules for hunting wealthy boyfriends:
- Play but don't overplay
Elina calls this approach a game of catch-up – you seem to be drawn to a man yourself, but you know how to stop in time and allow him to take the initiative himself. Pretty wise advice, by the way! Falling at the feet of a man is not worth it – the rich are accustomed to the increased attention of women. And if a man is good-looking, and charismatic, and not deprived of his mind, and knows how to make his companion laugh … Can you imagine what kind of hunting is being done for him?
But it is also not necessary to flirt too much and defiantly repel a man, without having time to really interest him. He will look at your theatrical gestures and think: “Do I need such quests at all?”
- Know how to listen
Talk to a man about a man. Let him give out all the information you need without realizing it. You won’t immediately ask him how much he earns and how generous he is used to being with women?
Any man likes it when a woman is interested in himself, his personality, and not a wallet and zeros in a bank account. Admire him, show interest, but don't overdo it. Let him open up to you. Find out all about his interests, attitude to money and women. But arrange everything so that he does not understand that your heart-to-heart conversation is a cunning interrogation with predilection.
Should I talk about myself? Slightly open the veil of secrecy, but do not lay out everything at once. Let his head spin with conjectures and fantasies about you.
- Sing praises
Elina disagrees with the statement that only women love with their ears. She claims that it is much easier to conquer men with compliments and laudatory odes. But don't overdo it. Your date shouldn't feel like you're a devoted fan who's not going anywhere and waiting for his indulgence for years.
- Don't have sex on the first date
The same rule applies here – play th, but don't flirt. You should not be an easy prey that falls into your own hands. Play with him, break him down to the limit, make him dream of a night with you. You can use the three-date rule, but don't drag out the hard-to-get game.
- Use the secret trick
When communicating with a man you like, start scrolling through the hottest episodes of your biography in your head in all details. Can't remember anything? Fantasize. Replay an erotic scene from the movie in your head. And… tighten your vaginal muscles. All these simple tricks will start the necessary mechanisms and create a special atmosphere between you.
- Provoke his sporting interest
Don't turn off notifications on your phone. Let him know that a date with him is just one of the many bright episodes in your life. He must clearly understand that other men also want you. No, you are not ready to sleep with the first person you meet and you know your worth. It's just that you're so good that fans constantly hover around you. This is how men are arranged – when someone is already following a woman, or there are obstacles on the way to the goal, it awakens excitement in them.
- Don't reply to messages right away
Do you spend hours waiting for his calls and messages and immediately rush to answer? Everyone, consider that you are already out of the game. What is the interest in hunting for prey if it jumps into your hands on its own? Wait.
- Don't let him control you
He sets conditions for you, forbids you to do anything, and you immediately rush to follow your master's orders? Well, who's better off for that, dear? Not only are you slowly trampling the remnants of self-respect into the dirt, but you are also rapidly losing interest in the man for whom you tried so hard. To hell with obedience! To hell with expectations! Yes, you like him. But you like yourself much more, and you will make him reckon with it.
- Be the one who cannot be caught
The old trick of suddenly canceling a date a couple of hours before the meeting works with both men and women, but not everyone knows how to use it. It is important to come up with a reinforced concrete excuse and show that you still want to meet him, it’s just that something didn’t work out this time. How it works? A classic emotional swing trick.
- Don't burden him with your problems
What normal person would want to hear someone whine on a first date, huh? We do not take into account individuals with the rescuer syndrome. Problems are unsexy and uninteresting. “No one likes troublesome women,” Elina concludes.
She even advises to embellish your own biography a little if you suddenly have to communicate with people from a different circle. She cites the film “Moscow Does Not Believe in Tears” as an example. “When the bluff is revealed, you will already be in a relationship and he will forgive you,” Kamiren advises. Of course, this advice should be followed very carefully – no one likes a lie.
- Psychological Trick
Ask him to talk about his wildest sexual experience, and in the course of his revelations, touch him. Allegedly by accident. So your touch will begin to be associated with him with something extremely pleasant and sexy. And he won't even understand what's going on.
You need to know the places!
Which location to choose, how to dress and how to behave? Now Elina will outline everything for you.
- Choose a restaurant according to the number of expensive cars in the parking lot
In these institutions, according to Kamiren, a special audience lives. And the food there is excellent, so in any case, you will win. Pay attention to restaurants like La Marée (and other establishments of Arkady Novikov) – your hunting promises to be fruitful there.
- Be friends with the managers of elite establishments
You understand how useful such connections are? But even with the support of such people, do not forget about your appearance. You should look so that no one would even think not to let you into the abode of luxury and sophistication.
- Order normal food and do not sit on the sidelines
You will drink tea at home. Or on a terrible date with a terrible gentleman – to quickly finish the cup and leave. And here, be kind enough to order a normal meal for yourself.
Did you get in the midst of a party? Don't be shy and actively join the company. Have fun, enjoy what's happening, but keep your eyes peeled.
- Have a fan with money in reserve
Hunting was so-so, but the bill turned out to be impressive? Call your fan that you keep in reserve and invite to dinner. Or tell him an incredible story about how you forgot your wallet and ask him to pay your bill.
- Go to the smoking room, even if you don't smoke
Didn’t have time to make such a “friend” or is he offended by you and refuses to come? Go to the smoking room. Do everything so that one of your new acquaintances (yes, you didn’t come there to relax, girlfriend!), Whom you pick up there, decides to generously help you with your little problem.
- It is important not only place, but also time
Holidays and restaurant opening days are a hot time! These days, your chances of successfully catching game are greatly increased. Just don't be late – the best time to shoot partridges is between 7-8 pm.
- Charity dinners, presentations, concerts
Call restaurants and find out what events are scheduled for a particular day. A table needs to be booked in advance and is it too much for your wallet? Bring your friends!
- Go to good fitness clubs
They often have restaurants. Don't forget to hunt there too. For example, give yourself a light snack after your workout.
- Playgrounds
On the weekends, you can pick up the so-called “Sunday dads” there. Where to go? To The Land That Doesn't Exist, The Seasons, The Ribambelle Family Restaurant, and Fashion Season.
Sunday dads often don't have time to spend with their kids on weekdays. But if they manage to cut it out on weekends, then that's a great sign! So he can be a good father.
- Choose your clothes carefully
On a date with a man, you naturally want to look sexy and fatal. This is fine. But if you go out with your friends, dressed in a vulgar outfit … Think for yourself how it looks from the outside?
Yes, you go hunting. But why should men shout about it? And in general, if you put everything on public display, you will deprive your potential boyfriend of the opportunity to dream up.
- If you are with a child, then behave accordingly
< p>On the playground where you brought your child, languid sighs and murderous hairpins will be out of place. Stylish but comfortable clothes are an excellent choice.
Elina herself admits that family, home and children are most important for her. But if the “cup is not full” and you want to let a worthy man into the house, why not make an effort to capture him? But you don't need to forget that you are a mother first of all.
- Don't mix everything up
Elina advises to distinguish between sex for money and finding a rich man for life. The first is still, whatever one may say, something like prostitution. And in the second case, you are just looking for a wealthy partner.
- Look for sincerity in relationships
Finding any kind of oligarch who would treat you like a beautiful toy is as easy as shelling pears. But do you want to find a relationship? Do you want to be comfortable with your oligarch, so that your union is not built on a dirty scam?
“Girls, look for the right relationship, think about the family. Although who cares, of course, the girls,” sums up Kamiren.
Advice for those who dare
- Appearance is an important factor. First of all, you need to attract the attention of a rich man. Regular physical activity and visits to beauty salons can create an impeccable image for almost any woman. To stand out from the crowd, you need not only to look good, but also to have a twist.
- However, you need to know the measure. Clothing should be attractive, but not provocative. In order to choose the perfect outfit, you should familiarize yourself with the wardrobe of the wives of influential men or celebrities.
- Intelligence is what keeps you. In order to meet a man for a serious relationship in Moscow, you need to be able to interest the interlocutor. No one needs pacifiers who are only after money. You can lure a man with an unusual outlook on life or an interesting hobby. A woman should be self-sufficient, and only then a man will want to get to know her better and continue to communicate with her.
- The ability to listen. Wealthy men tend to work hard. Their life consists almost entirely of stress, which is rarely able to throw out. An ordinary heart-to-heart conversation or sympathetic silence will help win over a man. If advice is required from a woman, it must be sincere and come from the heart.
- Ease of communication. Choosing a woman, a man wants to feel calm and comfortable next to her, forget about all the difficulties. Seeing the perky sparkle in the eyes of his companion, the man will obviously want to spend some more time with her. A positive attitude can set the tone for both the evening and the relationship in general.
- Self-sufficiency. You can’t show a man that he is the only thing a woman is trying for. A man should always crave more attention, only in this way can interest be maintained. The same goes for accessibility. A woman who is too liberated is likely to scare away a wealthy man who considers her too frivolous.
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