My Husband is a Girl: How Forced Dressing Saved Our Marriage

Whatever we call it, forced cross-dressing, feminization, sissification, maidservant play, etc., this fetish is one of the most widespread in the world. No matter what country you live in, you can be sure that there are many men who either already do it or fantasize about it all the time.

Alexa Martínez's story

“I didn’t rave about the idea of ​​feminizing my husband, at least at first. I have always been the dominant lady and was often the leader in relationships before I met my future husband. Then I was not feminine enough, I made all the important decisions myself.

But I had never been involved in femdom or any other fetishistic topic and knew almost nothing about forced dressing and feminization. I just liked to be in charge, which is not uncommon in couples, usually one of the partners is the leader, and often the woman.

Once I made the decision to take control of our formerly democratic marriage and forcibly feminize my husband, I started looking for guidance online and found mostly porn. These were wild incredible stories of forced feminization and history of cruelty, including forcing men to take female hormones, chemicals, or even surgery.

This kind of thing is unacceptable to me, is clearly a sick fantasy and out of place in such love relationships like ours.

First steps in feminization

So I started with what I consider to be a natural approach to feminization within a permanent relationship. I tried to gradually prepare my husband for the role of a submissive girl. Since I didn't have a mentor in those early days, I came up with a script and of course made a few mistakes.

For many heterosexual women living in an ordinary family, the concept of forced dressing may seem absurd. After all, if you want someone who looks and acts like a woman, why not just find a real woman?

Well, let's analyze this statement. Who decided that the biological masculine male should act in the so-called habitual masculine way? In fact, this is nothing more than a social convention invented by some men to justify, maintain and promote unequal status in their favor.

Later on reflection, I realized that I could have achieved my goals much sooner if was firmer and more confident in her goal. My desire to remain in a happy love relationship with the man I feminized and controlled gave me wings, and sometimes I was too soft.

I always listened to what he wanted. This approach was not always justified, as our marriage was still strong, despite the fact that over time the spouse became more and more rigid and demanding. Now I understand that from the very beginning I should have been firmer with him. Leadership and discipline was good for both of us.

When we first met, he was a successful businessman working for a large company. He wasn't what you would call a typical alpha male, but he wasn't a “rag” either. My future husband was very confident, independent, eloquent and assertive.

However, he was always sensitive and often seemed to prefer the company of women, although he was not opposed to evening drinking sessions with friends or afternoon football. He was and still is 100% heterosexual, but… now he is a girl who is still attracted exclusively to the female sex.

He once admitted to me that he always liked strong women, although until now he never allowed them to dominate themselves. Our relationship was the first in which I was not the leader, instead we were equal partners from the very beginning. I liked it at first.

Quite naturally, you want to ask why I thought about forced cross-dressing, thereby jeopardizing a good strong marriage? Undoubtedly, he would be the ideal partner for many women, and the masculinity really attracted me to him. But was it completely true or was there something else, something deeper in me and something deeper inside him that we both saw without realizing it?

It took a lot of work on my part efforts to turn a husband into a girl

Looking back, now I know for sure. What made me turn this tall, slender, assertive businessman into an obedient housewife and submissive girl?

Why did I rename him “Alice”, call him a girl and now address him in the feminine form? Why do I insist that he always wear a skirt or dress at home, as well as panties and a bra? And why did I do it anyway, even when faced with his resistance?

If I were writing a university thesis on this topic, I would probably mention the destruction of artificial social rules created over time, and about how he freed himself from the expectations and pressures of men in our society.

There is some truth in this, but whatever the underlying reason, I became convinced that he needed the experience. Indeed, he is much happier now, having become an obedient girl, who has now been forever deprived of responsibility and all expectations of masculinity.

He admitted that he now has the advantage of wearing much prettier clothes and using cosmetics< /h3>

The benefits to me and to any woman taking control in this way are obvious and enormous. What woman wouldn't want a dutiful partner to put her needs first.

Now I have a loved one who not only maintains the house like a submissive housewife, but also does whatever I want. Let's be very honest and admit that we all enjoy looking at the bodies of those we find attractive, and I do find my Alice's body quite sexy. It's now that her masculinity has flattened out.

I insist that she wear very short skirts and thin stockings. I want to look at her legs, it gives me pleasure and I don't want to be denied that pleasure.Her underwear is feminine and revealing.She wears a bra.

To be clear, I insist that I don't want to turn my husband into a woman biologically at all, I just wanted to turn him into a submissive woman in terms of gender, which I did.

This is my real story about how I gradually discovered the incredible pleasures and benefits of a relationship led by a woman and a feminized husband.

I believe that all women have seven clear reasons to feminize their husbands

• forced dressing makes men more tender;

The very fact of wearing women's garments has a profound effect on his mannerisms. Psychologically, feminine clothing influences our behavior. Changing clothes to something feminine, your husband begins to act soft and submissive.

• feminization ensures that the husband remains faithful;

An opportunity for your man having a romance or even a one-night stand is practically out of the question. After all, what man would let any other woman see that his wife had dressed him in women's underwear?

Even if he came up with a weak excuse that he prefers women's underwear, how would he explain the bra and clean-shaven genitals? You eliminate any risk that he will ever stumble. You have control.

• dressing up ensures that he does housework;

You can turn him into your personal maid or just a housewife. Just imagine, you will never again have to do boring household chores, unless you feel like it.

This frees up time for more interesting activities like reading and socializing with friends.Of course, you also save on the cleaning lady, since now there are free servants at home.

• sexual energy increases;

Forced dressing turns on both the wife and the husband. This is important because the intense arousal that a man will experience during cross-dressing and feminization tends to give his wife a powerful tool to manipulate.

• a man learns to better understand a woman;

By making your husband or man get beauty treatments and household chores, you introduce him to the reality of what it means to be a girl. He will see women differently and appreciate all their efforts.

• it makes him more attractive;

Being a straight woman doesn't necessarily mean wanting to be around a big, rough, hairy man in jeans, a washed-out T-shirt, and a shaved head. With each stage of feminization, his appearance improves exponentially.

• feminization reduces male aggression and bad habits.

Any aggressive tendencies that he had before almost completely disappear when he turns into a pretty girl in a short skirt with high heels.

It is important to note that this type of relationship under the guidance of a woman should not be violent, and husband should not suffer. The relationship remains trusting even if the wife is in complete control.

Our journey is not yet complete and I still need to make some adjustments in terms of Alice's control to deepen her feminization and submission. I have to be frank and mention that in many situations it is not possible for Alice to be dressed as a girl. For example, when she is at work, with family and friends. This may change, but we're not there yet.”

Reasons for the spread of male feminization